Spirit message for today. I felt so urged to deliver this message. I had written down the words “Stop waiting to be happy” last night on a post it note. I kept looking at it today, asking Spirit if it was time to talk about it and all I kept getting was “No, not yet”. Then I found myself a few moments ago feeling pushed to go ahead and do it NOW. There is someone out there that will get this message because of timing more than any other reason. So, I listened to Spirit, verbalized the message and here we are. I hope it reached everyone who needs it!
Author: Waya
Thoughts on the New Moon
With a new moon cycle. It is time to start those projects you’ve been wanting to get done, try new things, new techniques and possibly even new ways of thinking.
Now is a good time to do an overlook of your life and get rid of anything that doesn’t belong. Start thinking about where you want the rest of your life to go and start doing the things to get you there. Keep positive thoughts and a positive outlook as you move forward and use the energy of this New Moon to help boost you to the new beginnings that you want/need in your life.
A Trip to the Shadow Lands
This is something I wrote back in 2006 🙂
A few weeks ago I had something come to me in a vision and take away something very precious and dear to me. I was crushed and very upset to the point of actually crying. This reaper of death came right up to me and took my dreams! Yes .. that’s what I said.. believe it or not! I saw him coming toward me and froze, not really in fear, more in confusion of why it was he was coming towards ME!!!!!!!! To my surprise he took away my dreams, and for anyone who knows me or reads any of my blogs, you will know how very important my dreams are to me. My dreams take me to the many places I can’t go in physical form. They take me to the arms of the one I love, they teach me the many lessons of life, they calm my fears and give me hope, they show me new paths and they help me to grow.
I wondered for a long time what it was that I had done that was so bad that I deserved such a thing as to have my dreams taken away. Each night I would try my best to dream and nothing. Nothing at all would come to me. My dreams were truly gone. What was I to do? I tried everything I knew to get my dreams to come back to me and I worked on being an even better person. I worked on more of my inner self, hoping it would be enough and that I would finally deserve or earn my dreams back… but no… nothing.
Then one night… I was sick and tired of not having my dreams!! I went off to where I knew the reaper would be that held my dreams… the shadow lands… that place … that very dark place that most fear. I overcame my own fear of that place for I learned that we must have such a place to have balance… light and dark… good and bad… for if everything was light or good.. how would we recognize the dark or the bad .. simply we wouldn’t. We’d know nothing different, everything would be exactly the same… just as to know great happiness you must first know great sorrow.
So I went to the shadow lands and searched out the reaper. I found him with my dreams right there hanging around his neck as if it were nothing but a charm .. hmmmp! So I walked right up to him… looked right into the darkness of his face and those soulless eyes and took back what was mine! I then dealt with him and let him know that there would not ever be another thing he would be allowed to take from me. I was taking back control of my own life and no longer allowing others to take away anything what was special or dear to me.
At first I hadn’t given much thought after I dealt with the reaper of why he took my dreams in the first place. I simply thought he did it just because he could… because that’s the type of spirit he was.
But today for some odd reason.. driving home from work … it dawned on me. The reaper was not actually the “Real” reaper of death… just designed to represent that to create fear and to be able to get my dreams from me that much easier. It worked… it was all a test … and the whole time I had it inside myself to get my dreams back at any time. I just didn’t know it.
If you want something bad enough, then you must take “ACTION” to keep it or get it back. You must be willing and ready to “FIGHT” for what you love, what you believe in and what you want. The reaper came to me and I did nothing. I didn’t fight… I didn’t chase after him… I didn’t protect myself… I did nothing but watch as he took away my dreams and then left with them. All I did was think about it … over and over and over … I let it consume my thoughts .. and mostly only thought about why is it I wasn’t worthy of keeping my own dreams or what had I done that was so wrong. It wasn’t about that at all. It was just a lesson to teach me to stop allowing others to take from me. Stop allowing pieces of myself to be given to those who did not deserve them and to fight for the things I hold dear. Leaving myself open is and can be damaging because not everyone or thing is honest and trust worthy. Many are out to cause harm… intentional or not. I must guard myself and those I love. I must pay more attention to my surroundings and make sure the things that are special to me don’t slip away .. or worse yet taken.
I thank who ever sent the reaper to take my dreams … it was a very valuable lesson .. and I shall forever hold on to this lesson and live by it!
Spirit Message – Calling All Healers and Spiritualists!
Putting the Puzzle Pieces Together
A Personal Story of Change
Today I share with you my very own personal story of change and how my world fell apart so it could fall back together again. How I was warned, how I reacted to it and how I started working through it and began putting my life back together after it had been torn completely apart.
Life Purpose – Not Always What It May Seem
In this video I talk about a completely different way of understanding what your life purpose may be. ENJOY!
Please understand that the points made in any and all of my videos are based on my own beliefs, experiences and feelings, in no way do I wish to force anyone to believe any particular way. If you feel drawn to my messages then great! If not .. then they are clearly not meant for you.
The Picture We Paint Ourselves
We all do this… we paint a picture of how we think our lives should be, what it should look like, who is in it and how they look and behave. Think about that image you have painted and ask yourself where does that come from. How much of what is in that picture is you and how much of it comes from other sources like environment, family, friends, media even. Be careful not to push away people because they don’t match the painting in your head… don’t pull away from opportunities because they aren’t in your painting. Stop looking at that painting and start living.
Will I Ever Be Happy?
The number one question I get all the time. Will I Ever Be Happy?
I give you the answer that spirit gives me. I have also struggled with this in my life but I have learned to listen and understand .. FINALLY!
I hope you enjoy my explanation of Finding Happiness Within and I hope more than anything that you too will also be able to find and experience it!
What We Allow Ourselves to Believe
Words and thoughts have power. Our lives are what we believe them to be. Our future is what we believe it will be. We must always be aware of our thoughts and what we tell ourselves and what we allow ourselves to believe. The first step to a better life is believing in a better life. We must plant seeds of positive thought inside ourselves, nourish those seeds with love and light and before you know it… those seeds will have grown into something beautiful. A Better LIFE… a Better YOU!
Full Moon Visions with the Wolf
Let it Go… Truly Let it Go!
Whatever it is in life that has caused you pain… let it go. Right now, this minute release it. You no longer need to hold on to it. It’s in the past and you no longer live there. The years you have spent telling yourself you have let it go, let that go as well. The lies you’ve told yourself, saying that you are okay, yep, let those go too. The reasoning, the guilt, the pain, the torment, the memories, the denial, the feeling that you needed to pay for your mistakes, the story of it all… let it all go. Truly, once and for all… LET Whatever IT is… GO! Don’t, for one more minute let it hold you back from living, from loving, from believing, from wishing, from hoping, from doing, from becoming! Don’t allow it one more second to steal away your happiness, your peace and your life. Just LET IT GO!
If you must… stand outside in the rain and allow it to be washed away from your being and then stand in the sunlight and allow yourself to be consumed with the light of healing. It’s okay to be okay. It’s okay to let the pain go. There is no need to wear it like a badge. I doubt the lessons will ever be forgotten, but the pain is no longer needed… so let it go.
We tell ourselves so many lies and the biggest being that we are okay with how things are, how they have been and how they may continue to be. We find ourselves just getting by. We tell ourselves that we have let stuff go that we clearly have not. We tell ourselves and everyone else that we are okay, when deep inside we still feel that same ol’ pain.
The first step we must take now is by telling ourselves the truth. The truth that part of our past still haunts us and that we have not actually let any of it go.
So here I am, taking the first step… I have spent my life holding on to a number of bad memories, a number of bad experiences and a number of bad choices. Afraid that I would repeat the past, I have held on to these things, not because I wanted to, but because I didn’t want them to come back around. Having them felt like a report card showing I passed that class, meaning I wouldn’t have to repeat it again. So, I held on without realizing I was holding on.
Today…. I begin the process of truly letting it all go. There is no actual class for life or for living. There is no report card at the end of it all that shows how well I did or didn’t do… there is only a life lived. How well that life is lived is up to me. It’s time to start truly living, it’s time to let go.
Being in Tune with Yourself & the Universe
Oh boy.. what a hard lesson it is to trust your own intuition. When we fight against our own inner knowing, we complicate our lives and make our journey so much harder than it needs to be. In this video I explain and give you a funny example. Learn to TRUST YOURSELF!
I am having one of those moments….
You know that moment when you want to write something deep and profound that will move others… to relay how you feel inside and there are just so many words that come to you that you can’t seem to get them in the right order???
I am having one of those moments….
I sit here taking a look back into my memory banks and browse upon all the most memorable moments of my life. I see all the good times and all the bad. I look over them carefully and pause for reflection. I search through my feelings about these moments and I realize quickly that the MOST important moments were the ones filled with love. All of the bad moments, important as well but for different reasons. The bad moments in life were times of growth and lessons to be learned. Those moments showed me the strength inside, they showed me how I have abilities greater than I thought possible. I am grateful for those moments but the moments that fill me with light are the moments that were made with love.
The moments in life where love is present are indeed for me the MOST important. The moments I want to reflect on most. Those are the moments when our spirit soar with the greatest power. When love is in our hearts, we become unstoppable, there are no mountains too tall to climb, no rivers too rapid to cross, no oceans to vast to overcome and no obstacle that is too difficult to stand in our way. When you meet someone who is filled with love you can’t help but feel it, absorb some of it yourself and then pass it on to others. Love is truly limitless. It fuels the light within us to levels unimaginable but definitely attainable. The more you are filled with love the more you feel capable of doing and becoming. The light within grows brighter and brighter with every moment that you are filled with love.
Think about the moments in your life that are the most memorable. You will find the bad days and the strength that they unveiled and you will see the growth that those days created. You will then move on to the good days and how much love was felt on those days. You will see that those were days where moments were laced together with true love. Those were the days where your smile was the brightest, your heart filled to the brim and nothing could possibly get in your way of experiencing what we all wish to attain… HAPPINESS in it’s purest form. LOVE.
Today, I am filled with endless LOVE!
The Lover’s Moon of June
Standing beneath the moons glowing light, I can feel her magic coursing through my veins. The energy of June’s full moon is that of love, marriage and success. It is a time to nurture your garden and enjoy it’s beauty. The same can be said for whatever projects you are tending in your life at this moment. All things become their best when we embrace them with love, whether it be a relationship, a job, project or anything else in your life. Act with love and watch it grow!
The June Full Moon is known by many names, some of them are: The Lover’s Moon as well as The Strawberry Moon, The Rose Moon and The Honey Moon.
Don’t forget to step outside and soak up a bit of that full moon magic tonight. Also now is a great time to cleanse and charge your crystals with that full moon energy… place them outside or in your windows so that they can capture that moon magic.
Being Different in a World of Masks
In this world there are so many that wear a mask to make themselves blend in. Don’t be one of those people. Don’t be afraid to be yourself. Be true to yourself so that you can be truthful with others and you will attract the best people into your world. Those who pretend to be something they are not will never find true happiness. Happiness comes from knowing who you are and loving that person. Those wearing a mask, lose themselves inside that mask. You were born unique, embrace it and let your unique light shine!
New Dream Catchers Available!
I have been busy busy weaving this weekend and have found myself finishing up 8 new dream catchers. The new dream catchers can be purchased on Etsy where you will find more photos and definitions of their various meanings.
Click here to view my Etsy Shop!
Personal Growth & Memorable Moments
I began to look at all the memorable moments of my life. I started thinking about all of my relationships and how I always made everyone else a priority. If I wasn’t going to put myself first why would anyone else. I began to think about my life now while I am not in a relationship and why I felt the need to search for someone else to focus on. I looked inside and found that I am truly happy as I am right now and I don’t “need” someone else in my life to be happy.. I am happy. Sharing a life with someone else who is happy would be great but not something that I “NEED”. THIS is a memorable moment!
Sitting in Silence
Wishing Your Life Away
We have all done this … during the bad moments life gives us, we often find ourselves wishing those days away. The thing about wishing your life away is that we have no idea when life will end for ourselves or for those we love. By wishing our lives away, just because we are going through a bad time… we are essentially throwing away days that when you look back will have been a gift left unopened. We must live each day as if it were our last, appreciate all the moments of our lives and not wish them away.
Your Path, Your Beliefs and Patience
Do you find yourself feeling stuck? Does the journey you are on feel like a chain event of hard lessons that just don’t seem to end? If so, you need to take some time to review your path, look back at the journey you have been traveling.. what lesson is it that has escaped your understanding. Have patience with yourself and the journey itself. It takes time and growth to change your path, you have to allow yourself that time and allow the journey to even out once you’ve figured out the lessons.
The Experience and Knowledge of Age
A Gift from Spirit
Being Thankful for the Storms
Life comes at us and we fight it. When we refuse to make needed changes in our lives, Spirit throws us into a storm that will tear down our world so that we have a chance to rebuild it the way it should be. Reflect back and look at the storms you have already survived. I am sure you will find certain things to be thankful for that in that moment you may not have thought you wanted or needed… but upon reflection you can be thankful for. Storms are meant to change us, the stronger more devastating they are the more we need changing. Think about where you would be without the storms… I’m sure now you are seeing their benefit.
Getting Out of Your Own Way!
Life is good if we allow it to be. Often we get in our own way of happiness. We make all the wrong choices for all the wrong reasons. We complicate our lives when it doesn’t need to be complicated. We get in our own way! We need to learn how to listen more closely to our intuition and make better decisions and stop blocking happiness from our own lives.
Finding Your Own Light
It’s a very freeing and empowering feelings when you find your own light. When you realize that love, light and happiness has always been inside YOU. There is no need to look to outside sources to make yourself happy or to make your life complete. You are already whole, you are already complete. Just as you are!
Surviving the Bad Days
Life can be so hard, but by dwelling on the storm we make it even more unbearable. Life balances out by giving us both… the good and the bad. We appreciate those good days because we understand what a bad day is like. Making it through the bad days can be ever so difficult… but there are some small things you can do to help you make it through… to help relieve some of the stress, worry and fear that takes place during the storm.
Story Time with the Raven
Today Spirit urges me to tell you all a story… All morning I have wandered through my memory banks to find the right story for you but just could not figure out which story Spirit wanted me to tell. So, I start this video with the thought of a story and allowed it to unfold all on it’s own. Enjoy!
Being True to Yourself
Life is too short to worry about what others think about you or what their opinion is about what you should be doing or what you believe in or anything else they think. Be true to you… be yourself, be unique and different. You’ll not find happiness trying to follow everyone else’s rules … so make your own rules and be YOU!
What Women Don’t Want
Viewer’s Choice
Knowing the Difference
A man of his word is not the same as a man of words. A man of words has all the right things to say and says them well and at all the right times but I am sad to tell you that words is all that you’ll ever truly get for that man. A man of his word is often silent, his words fewer than the previous… but what makes this man great is that his actions follow his words. He doesn’t say things just to be saying them. What he says, he means and he follows up with great intent and purpose.
In my younger days I confused the two. I thought surely that a man with so many words would mean what he says. I thought that all of these words meant that he put great thought into what he wants when in reality he was just talking to hear his own brain rattle.
Dear Moon in the Night Sky

Dear moon in the night sky
Rain down your magic so that tonight I might fly
Take me to places of love and light
Take me to where a lover will hold me tight
Someone who sees me and really cares
Someone who will not make me shed anymore tears
Bring me a love that is ever so deep and true
Someone who’s actions match the words “I love you”
Allow me to hold on to this magic forever and always
For the rest of my life and all of my days
Dear moon in the night sky
Rain down your magic so that tonight I might fly.
So mote it be
50 Shades of “Yes Please”
Today I talk a little bit about keeping the romance in a relationship alive. It’s important to take time for each other and to not let intimacy with each other go. When was the last time you had a passionate kiss? Be playful with each other, tease each other … make time for your relationship.
When Life Pulls the Rug Out From Under You
Finding Inner Peace
You have to start with letting go of the thoughts in your head that make you sad, hurt angry and upset. I know it is easier said than done but, if you cannot change these things then dwelling on them does not change the situation and it solves nothing. Holding on to these disruption thoughts only makes you sick and robs you of your inner peace.
Full Moon of May
The Full Moon in the month of May is known as The Hare Moon, the Flower or Planting Moon. It’s a time of health, love, romance, and wisdom. This is a great time to plant the seeds that you have empowered. As the seeds begin to grow, the energy you have filled them with will start to manifest in your life. It’s also a great time to rekindle the romantic spark and passion in a relationship. If you’ve been working magic to help your career, now will probably be the time to decide which of your job offers to accept.
And as usual.. don’t forget to place all your sacred tools, crystals and stones out so that they may soak up some of that full moon magic!
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What Women Want
Women want your love and your time, they want effort and someone who legitimately cares about them. It’s truly not that complicated… they want you to give to them what they give to you without question, without having to be told.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
Don’t Give up on Yourself
For all the givers in the world… those who put themselves last in order to do for others… Take the time to put yourself first from time to time. It’s a hard task, because it’s not who you are but it’s what you need sometimes. I started the year saying that this is what I was going to do, I was going to put myself first this year… well I have failed so many times but I’m not giving up on myself. I can do this! I can do more for me, I can and I will. I deserve to be kinder to myself, more loving to me… allow myself more time to do what makes ME happy.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
New Paintings Available!
I’ve spent the weekend with paintbrush in hand creating some magic on canvas!
An ink and acrylic painting of Raven Lovers and a Beautiful Rainbow Warrior Wolf painting!
Click here to view them in my Etsy Shop!
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
Just Say You Love Me
Magical Moments
You never know when magic might pop into your life… so you can’t give up on life or give up on yourself. The magical moments that come into our lives heal all the painful parts. They make us forget all the hard times, even if only for a moment.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
Spiral Chakra Meditation
Last night I was Spirit Walking and the Grandmother Spirit Guides showed me a new meditation. In this video I describe to you this meditation and what it is used for. Enjoy!
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
Being the Weirdo
I have always felt that I wasn’t like everyone else. As far back as I can possibly remember, I felt different. I have always been okay with being different, in fact being different made me feel more special. I wasn’t following the crowd, I stood out and wasn’t afraid to walk in a different direction. There is great power in feeling that you can choose to be different and not care about how others see you. We were not created to all be the same.. we were always meant to be different. Being different scares most people, not me! I enjoy every blissful moment of it!
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
























