positive thinking

Tormenting Ourselves

Why do we torment ourselves? What does it accomplish? We are indeed our own worst enemy. We allow unhealthy thoughts to take up space in our minds. When we focus on these negative thoughts we begin to manifest them. It’s time to change your mind and move into positive thinking!

Many Blessings,

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Looking in the Mirror

Be aware of how you talk about yourself and your life. We are our own worst enemy. Our thoughts and words about ourselves must stay positive. You must believe in yourself, your path, your dreams. Embrace all the positives and stop focusing on the negative. Waya has a task for you … are you up for that task?

Many Blessings,

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Living in the Lie We Tell Ourselves

Good news! Life isn’t as hard or complicated as we tell ourselves it is. Life is hard and is complicated but we tell ourselves, for the most part, that it is much harder and complicated than it truly is. We have to stop telling ourselves these lies. We have to get out of our own way!

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What We Allow Ourselves to Believe

Words and thoughts have power. Our lives are what we believe them to be. Our future is what we believe it will be. We must always be aware of our thoughts and what we tell ourselves and what we allow ourselves to believe. The first step to a better life is believing in a better life. We must plant seeds of positive thought inside ourselves, nourish those seeds with love and light and before you know it… those seeds will have grown into something beautiful. A Better LIFE… a Better YOU!

Many Blessings,

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Daily Insight – YOU DESERVE IT!

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Son of Earth  – It’s ok to be proud of yourself for your accomplishments … the size of the endeavor doesn’t matter. It’s time to appreciate yourself and the work you have done, the miles you have walked, the storms you have weathered, the harvests that you have gathered, and the seeds that you have planted and tended.

Six of Air – Clarity  – The more you understand and know yourself … the clearer your insights. Get to know your own inner truths. When the battle inside you stops, harmony and wisdom prevail. Knowing yourself gives you inner peace, security and trust.

Five of Earth – Insecurity – Stop abusing yourself! Look at yourself with love and understanding… there is no need to be so harsh with yourself. Where does this negative thinking come from? It’s not needed in your life. Thinking poorly of yourself slows your growth and holds you in a miserable loop of negativity. Stop it! Your are worth love and kindness. Treat yourself how you treat others. Stop beating yourself up. Inject positive thinking into yourself and allow yourself some happiness…. some love and kindness. YOU ARE WORTH IT!

Many Blessings,

Shifting Your Thoughts

We all find ourselves in that negative zone from time to time. Some far more than others. Getting out of that negative space often seems like a task that is larger than life, larger than you feel like you can handle at that moment.

It’s as hard as you allow it to be. I know you hate that answer but it’s true. My words are easy to say and easy to type but I know how difficult it feels in real life. I have been in that negative space far more often than I would like to admit.

The question of the day is: How do you get out of that negative space and into a more positive one?

By shifting your thoughts from whatever it is that put you in that ugly space to begin with. Is it easy? Yes and No. It’s something that will take some serious work on your behalf. You will have to focus your thoughts and energy to something else…. something that doesn’t relate what so ever to those negative thoughts. The further from that negative monster that put you into that space.. the better!

Find something to do. Busy yourself with something that will make you feel good. Whether it is something for another or something productive for yourself or whatever… find something physical to focus your energy and thoughts on.

Take some reflection time to focus and remember all the best moments of your life. Fond memories always put a smile on my face and help me move forward.

When we find ourselves in that negative pit… we dwell on all things negative and bring a dark and dreary cloud over ourselves that does not have to be there. Focusing so much on those negative thoughts doesn’t make it go away, it doesn’t make you or anyone around you feel good, it doesn’t help or improve your life in any way at all. All it does is prolong the negative darkness that is there.

Shift your thoughts and you’ll be asking yourself why on Earth you spent any time at all in that negative space.

Many Blessings,


The World Inside Our Heads

Spirit guides me this morning to talk about something we have all been guilty of doing to some extent and at some point in our lives.

This would be “making up situations in our own heads”. Tell me you haven’t done this… hahahahaha we all have in some way .. some more drastic and elaborate than others. We convince ourselves of things going on in our lives that are not really happening.  We make people and situations into something they are not.

Sometimes we can turn people and situations into things we wish they were and sometimes we go the whole dooms days route and convince ourselves of the worst. We do this instead of allowing things to be just what they are.

A friend doesn’t “appear” to be as upset as you are about something going on in your lives… so you tell yourself they just don’t care. Maybe they don’t show their emotions in the same way. You have no idea what really may be going on internally with your friend … so be careful not to compare their reaction with yours.

In a relationship  – one might show their affections outwardly and emotionally while the other may show theirs in some other way.  It does not mean the other does not care about you. You have your way and they have theirs.

In our minds we have convinced ourselves that our friend or partner must not care … when this may or may not even be the truth.


The waters of life get rough and we seem to be having a hard time and not so much luck. Some then cook up these scenarios in their heads that the whole world is suddenly against them. Someone must be wishing them bad luck or someone is working against them.. or .. or.. or.. it’s all dooms day, drama and misery. So we have hit a rough patch .. your attitude and the way you handle yourself during this time is part of what determines how long this rough patch lasts. Sometimes we put ourselves through far more misery than is needed.

We don’t always make up dooms day situations .. we also make up “better than real life” situations. I have seen so many people over the years do this. Most often done with relationships or well.. hopeful relationships. If you haven’t done this yourself, I am betting that you know someone who has! They find themselves in a new relationship with someone that is not so truthful and honest or maybe just not a good match for the other person..

Here are some of things you may recognize:

They change who they are to be compatible with the other person.. not really being who they are.. this never lasts long term.

The other person in the relationship has shown some unsteadiness. It’s obvious to everyone… even you… you excuse it away… something else happens that’s not so great.. again you excuse it away… not wanting to accept the truth. Wanting this person to be the one … you make excuse after excuse until sooner or later you both run out of excuses!

How much pain and hardship would we have saved everyone if at first we just allowed things to be as they were and accepted that fact?

So there you .. a bit of food for thought for today.

Many Blessings,


There is sure to be a lot of activity today being the day after Halloween and 11-1-11.

For those who don’t know what I’m talking about, I’m talking about the Angelic or Master  Numbers.

So here is some information about the numbers 1, 11, 111, 1111 and any other combination of the 1s.

This first snip comes from http://www.angelscribe.com/1111.html: “Whenever you see the sequence 111 or 1111 show up, it is a great sign of a golden opportunity. Both sequences mean that a “doorway” has opened up in which your intentions and goals will manifest extremely quickly. The Angels have taught me to focus my thoughts and intentions whenever I see 111 or 1111, almost like making a wish when a cake with candles is presented to you.”

I find this so true. I have noticed that since I began to recognize these sequences of numbers, straight away I have a mind set for blessings, gratitude and positive thinking. I thank the angels for the nudge and I can’t help but feel really good inside when seeing these numbers. It’s not just the numbers 11 or 111 it is any combination of triple digits. Each with their own significance.

Lately I have been seeing 666 a lot. This tells me to change my thoughts. What I have previously conceived to be bad is not neccisarily so. Previously, my thoughts toward the 6s came from early childhood conditioning. Growing up in the bible belt of the South, we are taught that the 6s are evil, thats the Devil’s number, the mark of the beast. Can you imagine that poor number 6 and how it must feel to have such a bad reputation for no real good reason at all. So now when I see the 6s I smile and acknowledge the message and the goodness that can be found in that number and dispell any negative thoughts that may come to mind.

Ok back to the 1s. Today is indeed a magical day filled with endless possibilities for us all. We simply need to recognize that the possibilities exist and that they are within our reach. We then need to take positive action to walk forward in our lives to bring about the changes that we wish to see.

Have a blessed and prosperous day,

Evil or Not?

This morning I was greeted straight away with the 6’s.. I was at first thinking .. Oh great! I then asked could I not get a better number.. and then I changed my thought patterns.. Why is it 666 should be considered evil? Why is it that I think it does? well from conditioning .. I have always been told by others that it was evil so it must be.. right? NO! The angels want us to change our way of thinking … just because someone has told you that this is the meaning of whatever it is .. that doesn’t mean it is all truth… meditate on it for yourself and go within to find the TRUE answer.. the TRUE meaning of what lies before you.

Here’s something I found on the 6’s that may shed more light this subject of angelic numbers.

666 was known as a number of higher dimensional light and there are those that have deliberately created fear around these numbers in order to keep sacred the true geometric knowledge and keep the magical frequency available for the select few. Those that hold fear around the numbers then create their own reality, bringing the true negative aspect of that geometry into their reality. For those that believe 666 to be a number of darkness, of service to self frequency or indeed a ‘devil’s number’ as you say, then this is exactly what it shall be. The living force of the universe is weaved upon a net, a web as it were, a mathematical web of number frequencies like codes in a computer. These numbers that exist, flow, change, divide, remain the same, move, feel, communicate, dance, learn and teach are the very fabric that works it’s magic around you when you use that which you know as the law of attraction. The fabric of geometric intelligence, the living numbers and mathematical shapes of the universe, of hyperspace respond to your consciousness, to your emotions, to your actions and thoughts. These geometric number frequencies exist within you, within your DNA therefore your thoughts are intertwined at all times with them. From our perspective they are one and the same. From your perspective there is a choice, there is free will. You can choose to believe that any order of numbers, any geometric shape or symbol or triple number code such as 666 is dark, negative, bad and evil bringing bad luck, omens of disaster and fear into your lives. Or you can choose to break free from the deliberate conditioning of others, conditioning that only serves to halt your evolution and ultimately shift timelines and prevent Ascension of Earth and Humanity on Earth.

You can read more of this article here : http://lightworkers.org/channeling/101490/living-number-patternings-and-666

Many Blessings,

Balance of the Good and the Bad

Today is a good day for me so it’s easy to say that we should take each day as it comes… look beyond the trauma, the stress, the pain and the sorrow and hold your focus on the horizon for the storms never last forever .. they move on quickly (tho it may not seem so) just like the weather.

These are easy words today … because for me at the moment anyway .. the weather is good. But, I have been through many storms and as I reflect back on those times… I have to say that it was keeping my focus on the horizon that got me through each moment of that storm.

In general I am a very positive person.. always looking at the good in everything. That character trait in me has often been the very thing that has gotten me mixed right into the middle of some really bad storms. My eyes, so focused on the positive and the good … that I completely overlooked the bad crap that was standing right in front of me.

So, in saying that … I have to say that we need to find a good balance between the two.

You can’t live your life always looking for that negative aspect of everyone and everything .. for thats all that your world will become.. one giant heap of negative CRAP! You also can’t just look at the positive in everyone and everything … because you will still find yourself deep in the crap.  But it would be unexpected crap and sometimes that can tear your world farther apart than always expecting the worst.

BALANCE is the key… I’m still working on that, myself.

It’s certainly not an easy task.. and I don’t have any clever wisdom that will suddenly make it all come into play…. but what I do know is that as long as you are aware of your own view of the world (yours and the world around you) then at least you are working on it and that is the first step forward.

Remember, you can’t just stop at acknowledgement … it has to be an on going task within yourself to see the whole picture every moment of every day.

Sounds exhausting, I know!

But really what we are talking about here is being awake and aware in this moment.. and this one.. and this one … and the next ..

Many Blessings and Good Luck on Your Journeys,

Wishful Thinking

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Spirit whispers in my ear to send out a message today for all to be aware of wishful thinking .

I’m not speaking about the kind of “I wish I could win the lotto” kind of thinking.

I’m speaking about a way of thinking that turns things and situations into what you wish them to be … not what they are.

This happens often and most of us do this at some point in our lives … What Spirit asks is that you become aware of it.

Often, we see signs, it could be a word or phrase or even our lucky number or possibly even a certain animal that reminds us of something or someone particular.  Wishful thinking is when you push what you want onto that sign and make it be about what you want to happen instead of what the sign is really meant to be about.

We can want for something so badly that everything we see turns into a sign about that particular thing.  Later down the road when things don’t turn out as you thought or hoped for, you might say something like “but the signs….”

Well yes you were given signs …. But because of your “want” of something else you did not see what those signs were really for .. instead you made them out to be about what you wished them to be.

Spirit asks that you become more aware of doing this … he loves us all and wishes not for us to be left guessing at that point down the road.

Many Blessings,