Today, comes an extra special gift of love and understanding. You will see your own beauty and self worth today. Your eyes are open and no longer do you believe what others would have you believe … instead you see your TRUTH.
Many Blessings,
Waya
This week, Spirit has us take a look at all the many relationships in our lives… friends, family, romantic and any other relationship. It’s time to cut the cord on those toxic relationships that are holding you back, making you miserable and causing you to feel bad.
This week Spirit shows us progress, we are able to get things done a little bit easier than in weeks past. Also, there is something you have locked away that you rediscover and it’s like finding treasure and at the end of the week we are left with feeling lucky! All in all a good week for us!
Today I talk about my own personal journey of healing. I talk about who I am and some of the things I have realized within myself. I talk about the struggles, the obstacles and about picking myself up when I thought I couldn’t take another step. I mention some of the things i have discovered hidden within me and how hard this journey has been but also how amazingly wonderful too.
Many Blessings,

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Tonight I talk a bit about the New Moon. I speak about New Moon energy and give you a very helpful meditation that is designed just for the New Moon. This meditation will aid in spiritual growth, development and whatever newness that you would like add to your life. ENJOY!
Many Blessings,
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The number one question I get all the time. Will I Ever Be Happy?
I give you the answer that spirit gives me. I have also struggled with this in my life but I have learned to listen and understand .. FINALLY!
I hope you enjoy my explanation of Finding Happiness Within and I hope more than anything that you too will also be able to find and experience it!
You know that moment when you want to write something deep and profound that will move others… to relay how you feel inside and there are just so many words that come to you that you can’t seem to get them in the right order???
I am having one of those moments….
I sit here taking a look back into my memory banks and browse upon all the most memorable moments of my life. I see all the good times and all the bad. I look over them carefully and pause for reflection. I search through my feelings about these moments and I realize quickly that the MOST important moments were the ones filled with love. All of the bad moments, important as well but for different reasons. The bad moments in life were times of growth and lessons to be learned. Those moments showed me the strength inside, they showed me how I have abilities greater than I thought possible. I am grateful for those moments but the moments that fill me with light are the moments that were made with love.
The moments in life where love is present are indeed for me the MOST important. The moments I want to reflect on most. Those are the moments when our spirit soar with the greatest power. When love is in our hearts, we become unstoppable, there are no mountains too tall to climb, no rivers too rapid to cross, no oceans to vast to overcome and no obstacle that is too difficult to stand in our way. When you meet someone who is filled with love you can’t help but feel it, absorb some of it yourself and then pass it on to others. Love is truly limitless. It fuels the light within us to levels unimaginable but definitely attainable. The more you are filled with love the more you feel capable of doing and becoming. The light within grows brighter and brighter with every moment that you are filled with love.
Think about the moments in your life that are the most memorable. You will find the bad days and the strength that they unveiled and you will see the growth that those days created. You will then move on to the good days and how much love was felt on those days. You will see that those were days where moments were laced together with true love. Those were the days where your smile was the brightest, your heart filled to the brim and nothing could possibly get in your way of experiencing what we all wish to attain… HAPPINESS in it’s purest form. LOVE.
Today, I am filled with endless LOVE!
I began to look at all the memorable moments of my life. I started thinking about all of my relationships and how I always made everyone else a priority. If I wasn’t going to put myself first why would anyone else. I began to think about my life now while I am not in a relationship and why I felt the need to search for someone else to focus on. I looked inside and found that I am truly happy as I am right now and I don’t “need” someone else in my life to be happy.. I am happy. Sharing a life with someone else who is happy would be great but not something that I “NEED”. THIS is a memorable moment!
Do you find yourself feeling stuck? Does the journey you are on feel like a chain event of hard lessons that just don’t seem to end? If so, you need to take some time to review your path, look back at the journey you have been traveling.. what lesson is it that has escaped your understanding. Have patience with yourself and the journey itself. It takes time and growth to change your path, you have to allow yourself that time and allow the journey to even out once you’ve figured out the lessons.
Life comes at us and we fight it. When we refuse to make needed changes in our lives, Spirit throws us into a storm that will tear down our world so that we have a chance to rebuild it the way it should be. Reflect back and look at the storms you have already survived. I am sure you will find certain things to be thankful for that in that moment you may not have thought you wanted or needed… but upon reflection you can be thankful for. Storms are meant to change us, the stronger more devastating they are the more we need changing. Think about where you would be without the storms… I’m sure now you are seeing their benefit.
We all have them… some it may feel like have far more than others. Our struggles are all different but they all build us.. they shape us in one way or another. Struggles force us to grow. They reveal to us what is hidden inside. This life is a frighteningly wonderful journey… The struggles that we go through are also frighteningly wonderful. They scare us and then they show us a gift. Whether that be a gift of knowing that we can survive or a gift of revealing to us something we didn’t know we could do.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
With everything life throws at us, we can find ourselves getting too comfortable in the wrong surroundings. Get get stuck in a pit that consumes us and find ourselves just waiting there. What are we waiting for? Some magical rope that will mysteriously pull us out? We have to make our minds that, that is not where we belong and pull ourselves out. We have everything within us to get out of the pit… we just have to make up our minds to do so.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
If we want to change our own damaging behaviors in life… we must be our own guardian and constantly and consistently be watching ourselves .. be aware of those behaviors that are not good for us and make effort to change them.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
Often, we allow the people and things to remain on our path that shouldn’t be for far too long. We have to be open and honest with ourselves and what fits us and what doesn’t. Allowing those things that don’t fit us to remain on our path does damage to everyone involved.. they cannot progress and neither can you. Without being harsh or cruel you can let go of those things and people that don’t truly belong with you. When you are able to do that…. everyone grows in the right direction.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
Tonight I speak a moment about a personal breakthrough.. one of those ah ha moments where you see clearly that you have been doing something without realizing you were doing it.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
Obstacles are opportunities for growth and healing. Do we allow them to block us from moving forward or do we use them as opportunities for growth and healing? Being able to stand on your path and look back at what you have overcome is a great feeling. Life will throw us many obstacles… forge past them and take that lesson and learn from it and allow yourself to heal once you have made it past. Look at what you have already survived… you can do this.
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Many Blessings,
Raventalker
There are many shifts that will happen in our lives. Some shifts come and go without hardly a notice and others rock our world in such a way that great change is experienced and acknowledged. We are constantly moving into different phases of being and of knowing. As our lives progress, we can’t help but to change.
When a new shift of being draws near, you can feel it. It resonates within you to the very core of your being. Your soul knows it’s coming, your mind, however may want to try and dismiss this shift coming for what could be a wide array of reasons. The shift is necessary for your own personal growth. Find ways to ground yourself and hold steady as the transition takes place. When you begin fighting with the inevitable, it only creates chaos. Stay flexible and allow the shift to take place. Once through the shift you will find yourself in a better place. Mentally, emotionally, physically …. all together better.
Looking back, you’ll wonder why you ever stressed over the change to begin with and wonder why you fought it and why you didn’t allow it to take place sooner.
The key is listening to your own intuition, that inner knowing that lives inside you will let you know when these shifts are coming. Listen and trust!
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
This morning I was reading a post by a friend, she spoke about a dream she had that her mother was in. It turns out that her mother was a very angry, negative and abusive person. In the dream, my friend had hoped that her mother might apologize or at least show some remorse for what she had done. That, of course never happened.
I have thought about what I could say to ease the pain of that friend and had a realization that I hope helps many. You see, I know a lot about abusive people, as I have been around them far more than I like to reflect upon. I had an abusive spouse that was abusive in every way that one could be. I grew up with a mother that never saw the sunshine, only the rain. Her entire life revolved around pain and misery and she was more than happy to spread it around. Let’s not forget those abusive friendships, abusive work relationships/encounters, etc.
So, while pondering what words of advice I could give to help my friend move past this pain, I began to think about all the abusive people I’ve encountered in my lifetime. It all really came down to something so simple and true.
All the pain, misery, abuse and negativity that comes from someone is because of them. It is not because of you or anything you have done. It is not any failing on your part, but on theirs. People are angry, abusive, negative, and hurtful because of themselves and their own past. They were not born this way but somewhere down the line they allowed themselves to become it.
You are not the root of how they behave… You were just simply there.
The best way to let it all go is to forgive them for not being able to rise above their own history and become something better than what has happened to them. Forgive yourself for allowing their issues to get inside your own head and cause you pain. Forgive and let it go. Holding on to the pain doesn’t make them any better a person, it doesn’t change what they did or what they will do in the future. It changes nothing. It holds you back from moving forward and from finding your own peace. Let it go. Forgive.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
Today is the New Moon and the End of the Month… So now we bid farewell to February and welcome in March with a new moon cycle. It is time to start those projects you’ve been wanting to get done, try new things, new techniques and possibly even new ways of thinking.
Now is a good time to do an overlook of your life and get rid of anything that doesn’t belong. Start thinking about where you want the rest of the year to go and start doing the things to get you there. Keep positive thoughts and a positive outlook as you move forward and use the energy of this New Moon to help boost you to the new beginnings that you want/need in your life.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
This morning on my way to work while wearing my newly knitted scarf, I was appreciating how easy it is in this day and time to learn new things. I went back to when my mom use to knit and thought about how if she wanted to learn a new stitch, pattern or whatever, she would have to go to the library or buy a book. Yesterday I learned a new stitch by typing in a few key words on Youtube. In less than 5 minutes I learned a new knitting stitch and implemented it in my knitting and have made plans for a new project with what I had just learned.
My husband and I have taught ourselves many things thanks
to Youtube and the world wide web. We took up lampworking recently and learned everything we’ve done so far from videos. There isn’t much in this day and time that there isn’t a video how-to for. Within minutes you can learn just about anything your heart desires. What a fantastic time we live in!
Here’s to always learning!
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
Let’s start with a smile, because smiles make everyone feel good
That lesson that seems to keep replaying through your life. You thought you learned the lesson but there must have been something you kept missing. Like a broken record you find yourself over and over again hearing the same things. The path you walk, though further in your journey feels all too familiar… as though you have been there before. It is an echo, haunting your spirit.
What is it that is left to understand? What else is there to this lesson that you have not yet learned? How do you move beyond this stage? How do you stop…. the echo?
Step back, take another look at this road you have traveled… it’s just there .. just around that last bend you passed. Do you see it? Yeah … that’s it. Now.. wash, rinse but don’t repeat. Dry yourself off and move on.
Echos belong to the past… don’t let them interrupt your future.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
How do you know you are on the right path?
It feels right. You know deep inside this is your path and where you belong and that you are headed in the right direction. You feel as though you are progressing. There is no peddling backwards or feeling stuck.. sure obstacles will come along but for the most part you feel good about where you are and the steps you take moving forward.
When coming upon a choice in your path as far as direction goes … take the path that pulls you toward it.
Obstacles and lessons will be along even the rightest of paths … this is how we learn and how we continue to grow.
It is expected. It happens on every path.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
If you want something new in your life…
You have to first OPEN YOURSELF TO THE POSSIBILITIES
Change is good but can be ever so scary. In order for positive changes to take place in your life you have to let go of any fears that may be in your way and open yourself to the possibilities that await.
We often block our own growth by allowing fear to get in our way. Remember that fear has its place but that place is not as a road block for your success.
Chant of the day: I Open Myself to Positive Change. I Open Myself to Progress. I Open Myself to Healing, Love and Prosperity.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
Late last night as I was getting ready for bed when this thought came to mind: Progress is not measured by money made or by title given but by feeling good about the path you walk each day.
We cannot measure our progress or success merely by a bank balance or by a title inscribed on a name tag or door plate. When you lay your head down at night… do you feel good about the life you lived that very day? If that answer is yes then give yourself a pat on the back for a job well done and continue that journey. If the answer is no… well then.. there is always tomorrow. Let go of what went wrong and make it right the next chance you get.
We cannot dwell in the past, we can only focus on the road before us and make changes as we move forward. Progress is measured step by step.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
Stay focused on the plans and goals that you have… now is a time that the work before you gets done with ease. Take advantage and get-r -done.
10 of Air – Negative Thinking
We often create our own hell simply by repeating negative thought patterns. Heaven and Hell are internal states of mind. So Hell only exists inside of you if you allow it. You are the only one who can pull yourself out of this destructive loop of negative thinking and doing. Let it go and move forward.
Medicine Woman
Embrace the feminine powers that flow within. A great healing takes place when you allow it to do so. You have a wealth of intuition stirring deep inside your soul. Allow yourself to simply be and you will soon find your connection with all things.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
It’s that time of year to think about what seeds you will be planting and how you would like them to grow.
What in your life do you want to see coming to fruition this year? Have you sewn the seeds to get your endeavors growing?
Before you can plant the seeds you have to get the ground ready. Lots of work has to be done before the seeds ever go into the ground. From that point on you must actively tend your garden to ensure it ripens to your liking.
Some people like to through out seeds and just see if they take root and then they accept whatever sprouts. There isn’t anything wrong with that … you just have to be happy with whatever comes from it and if the birds get to those seeds before they have the chance to take root and grow .. well then you have to wait another year and try again.
But, if you want something particular in your life you must do the work to bring it into being. Prepare the ground, carefully choose your seeds and tend to them as they begin to grow. At the end , you’ll have a harvest that you can be proud of. All the work you put into it will show and the reward, great!
What seeds will you be planting this year?
Many Blessings & Happy Spring!
Raventalker
Throughout our lives we are building. We build relationships, we build a home, we build safety, we build knowledge, we build confidence, we build routine, we build habits, etc.
When it is time for a major change to occur in one of these areas that we have spent years building .. the change can be drastic or at the very least “feel” very drastic. What has been built wasn’t constructed overnight and therefore when that change needs to happen and happen now… it is as if a wrecking ball has come from out of nowhere and knocked you right onto your bum and oh boy can it hurt!
It may feel as though what was once there is now destroyed… well duhhhh! That’s the whole point! Whatever it was that the wrecking ball tore down .. is no longer needed. Now there is room for you to rebuild with new materials, new knowledge and a new set of tools.
I won’t lie… it sure does suck whenever that wrecking ball shows up… but the rebuild will serve you so much better in the end and life will take a much brighter turn once we allow the change to happen. It’s going to happen regardless .. the more we fight it the worse it feels.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
Ace of Air – Inspiration – Insight – Mental Clarity
The answers are clear….. follow that hunch – that inner knowing. You know what to do so why question what you already know and feel? An inner balance will help you find the trust that is needed. Practice meditations and begin following your hunches… the more you follow the more you will begin trusting yourself fully.
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Nine of Fire – Inner Strength – Break Through – Growth – Courage – Resolve
You know the gifts and the strengths that exist inside you… and you must begin now to trust that they will sprout fourth when the time is right. This does not mean that your actions stop.. it means you continue your work to progress but have patience in yourself and allow the gifts to fully develop in their own time. It is hard to see our own growth.. but take a journey back and look at where you were 10 years ago, 5 years ago, 3 years ago and even just 1 year ago.. you are growing .. and you must truth that you will continue this path of growth.
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Balance – Looking Within – Change – Transformation
It is easy to become overwhelmed in today’s life .. take some time to step back and reflect within. Sometimes we must withdraw to regroup and gain our balance. Let go of “doing” and just let go for a while. Listen to your inner knowing and when the time is right to begin “doing” again.. you’ll know.
Letting go is the key to wisdom… clarity is revealed when one lets go. Easier said then done… I know.. but practice makes perfect .. so pend some time teaching yourself the act of letting go.. even if for small moments at a time. You will benefit greatly from this practice, and the more you do it the more you benefit.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
I walked outside a moment ago and noticed a tree, all green except for this single leaf … from there my thoughts went to:
Just because everyone around you isn’t changing, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t.
Change is a natural occurrence that happens in all things. For us to grow, we must change in one way or another. Maybe it is our thoughts, our way of living, the way we do particular things, the way we process information, the way we handle life or any number of possibilities one might change. Don’t worry about fitting in with everyone else. Be YOU! Enjoy the changes that naturally occur within you and allow them sculpt you into the person you were born to be.
Let your own unique beauty shine!
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
Transformation…. we all must transform… it is how we grow and evolve.
As life comes at us, bringing everything it has…. the good and the bad, we grow, we learn and we transform.
The key here is to transform with life as it comes… don’t fight it. It’s going to happen no matter what we do so fighting it only causes us that much more heartache and sometimes even trauma. Find that place in yourself where you can find comfort in your own growth and transformation. Fighting with ourselves when we are trying to evolve only causes us more harm and sets us back when we should be continually moving forward.
I know that some changes are hard to take but by fighting this change we only make it that much harder. Don’t think of it as giving in.. think of it as moving forward. Allow nature to take its course and allow yourself that room to grow.
Again, I know this can at times be very hard… but becoming stagnant can be even harder on the soul than one could imagine.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
In order for us to grow, there will be many periods of transformation in our lives. These transformations can be subtle and at other times they may seem chaotic and overwhelming.
Those more severe moments of our transformation tend to throw us for a loop and can send us off balance … there is reason for this. Once we lose our balance we must work to regain that balance. We change our position, our footing… and we readjust ourselves where we stand. Once we have regained our balance, the world around us has a different look, well it doesn’t look any different really, but we see it differently. Our vision comes then from a new perspective.
Remind yourself, when going through a seemingly chaotic situation that transformation is taking place and that soon you will have a new outlook on life. It doesn’t always change drastically.. but it does change.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker

The star reminds us of our own gifts, whatever they may be. Whether is its a specific artistic skill or something like the skill of listening or giving care to others .. share your talents without holding back and without expectations or without strings attached and the life force of energy will flow freely from you and be returned equally. The more you share .. the more is returned.
You have specific gifts for a reason .. and that reason is to share it with others.
There is no gift or talent too small.. none more valuable than the other.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
Singing my song, whistling a tune.. asking the fairies to show me the way … I roam the green grass filled with patches of clover in search of those with leaves of 4. Each one I find I thank my wee little friends and search on for yet another. I gather those with leaves half chewed… leaves large, medium and small… I gather them all.
I stopped for a moment and smiled when this little one came into sight.
This one is a fully grown 3 leaf clover who has begun to grown 1 more. Unafraid to change, not trying to fit in with the others… this clover wants to be something more. So with all it’s might it digs down deep within the soil and gathers the strength and ability to make that change happen. This clover is now something quite different… something fabulously more!
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
Blossoms, birds and bees
The green, green grass growing
Warm air whirling through the trees
It’s Spring!
Life sprouting right up from the ground
Daffodils, daisies and violets splashing color to and fro
While the robin fills the air with its sweet, melodic sound!
It’s Spring!
Revitalized from the ever glowing sun
Bare feet on the fresh mowed lawn
Blue skies and cloud watching … OH what fun!
It’s Spring!
A sunny day picnic for two
Baby ducks playing on the lake
A feeling all fresh and new!
It’s Spring!
A wonderland of life now buzzing through the air
The great awakening has begun
While I’m sunning on the deck without a worry or a care!
It’s Spring!
Many Blessings,
Raventalker