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Summer Solstice Changes

Summer Solstice – a pivotal turning point for many!! Life changes… your path changes. What your life is today will look very different at the Solstice!

Many Blessings,
Waya

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Daydreaming

Today, Spirit shows me many will be in a state of daydreaming all through the day. It’s not a bad thing… seeing the dream is part of putting energy into that dream and that will help us manifest the daydream… so dream away! Write down these daydreams, it will add extra energy to the dream. Also a quick message about the Summer Solstice, times are changing!

Many Blessings,
Waya

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Time to Get it Done!

Keep working on that project or task that you have going right now.. try and get it finished up by tomorrow because Thursday something else will need your attention.

Many Blessings,
Waya

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Spiritual Guidance for April 24-May 1

WOW!!! WOW!! WOW!!! What a month! The week ahead… this last week of AMAZING April… is nothing short of AMAZING!!!!!  This is where it gets really good folks! This week, dreams  begin to come true and goals are being realized. It has been a hard month but it ends with the best week you’ve had in a very long time! GOOSEBUMPS!

Many Blessings,
Waya

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Time to Make Plans!!!

Make Plans!!!! Don’t wait for life to happen or come knocking at your door.  You have to get out and make life happen! I don’t care if you have to go out on your own.. whatever you have to do … do it .. no excuses. No waiting… Make those plans today and do something fun this weekend .. just for you!

Many Blessings,
Waya

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Connecting with Spirit

Today, I talk about connecting with Spirit and communicating with the Spirit world. First we must let go of our physical self and go in search of our true self at the core of our being .. our very own soul/spirit. When you can accomplish this… you will then be able to feel that connection and begin communicating.

Many Blessings,
Waya

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Spiritual Guidance for April 18-24

This week an abundance of positive energy surrounds us and we end the week with a full moon! You will feel guided to change your life. Old fears could show up, but this is just for you to recognize them and to release them so that you can move forward. I then speak about the healing process in more detail.

Many Blessings,
Waya

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Decoding Your Dream

Spirit shows me a DREAM today! A very telling dream that is of great importance. I talk about understanding your dreams, dream interpretation and how to decode its meaning. If you haven’t had the dream yet.. it’s coming within the next couple of days.

Many Blessings,
Waya

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Something BIG this Way Comes

BREAKING NEWS!! This Spirit interruption has been brought to you by SYNCHRONICITY and BIG CHANGES on the WAY!!!

Many Blessings,
Waya

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You Finally See Your Progress

Today is a day of rest, time to relax a little bit. The grandmothers come in and show me TRUST. Trusting yourself, your gifts and your abilities. They also show me a clean slate, void of all self doubt. You finally begin to SEE your own progress!

Many Blessings,
Waya

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A Vision of Hope

Today, the Grandmothers share a vision of hope with me. They show me a bright sunny day, a field of tall grasses and a man and woman walking through the field… reaching down gently touching the top of the grass as they go along. They show me the happiness & love within these people. These people are in balance with themselves and their lives and with the Earth.

Many Blessings,
Waya

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A Butterfly Kind of Day

Something about today feels really good and makes me smile. A very positive, uplifting day. Butterflies suddenly appear and bring us a reminder about extracting the joy in life and they remind us to enjoy life’s dance. They also bring us messages from our loved ones who have passed over. Today… Find your Joy … Find your Happiness!

Many Blessings,
Waya

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The Sun Rises & The Sun Sets

Take a look today at all those things in your life that is constant.

Many Blessings,
Waya

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Spiritual Guidance for April 4-10

This week is all about inner reflection and balance. Looking within to see where we are off balance and what we can do to bring more balance into our lives.

Many Blessings,
Waya

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The Door of Opportunity

The door of opportunity has been unlocked and swung wide open!!! Goosebumps all over!!!  We have been waiting for this and working toward this for a long time and now that time is HERE!! All of our manifesting and hard work… is about to pay off! Our lives start truly changing right here and now. Today is truly our new beginning… where all we have been working toward begins to really manifest!

Many Blessings,
Waya

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Grab a Broom.. Time to Cleanse

Grab a Broom and lets start cleaning! Today is about cleansing inside and out. Let go of and get rid of those things that no longer serve you and those negative things that keep us from moving forward.

Many Blessings,
Waya

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What’s on Your Mind?

What is your focus at the moment? Are you focusing on the right things?? Spirit has us pay attention to what our focus is on and when we find ourselves focusing on the wrong things .. it’s time to shift that focus!

Many Blessings,
Waya

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Your Spiritual Guidance for March 28 – April 3

Oh what a magical week we have coming!! Our to-do lists gets things checked off and changes and opportunities are everywhere!! It’s like the birth of a brand new EVERYTHING!

Many Blessings,
Waya

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The Final Phase of Letting Go

If you haven’t already let go… the time is RIGHT NOW! Today, I talk about letting go and how hard it is but also how much it’s needed.

Many Blessings,
Waya

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Spiritual Guidance for March 7-13

New Moon this week with an eclipse!! Energy Through The ROOF!! New beginnings, new adventures, new ways of seeing, believing and doing… with added sun energy to add even more energy to it all! Be aware that everyone is on an emotional seesaw right now and be patient with them and be patient with yourself at this time. Right now things are falling away from us that are no longer serving our highest good so that we can rebuild in a much stronger, balanced way to help us reach our soul purpose.

Many Blessings,
Waya

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The Thing About Fear…

We allow fear to come in and rob us from our peace and happiness. Some fears keep us from doing stupid and harmful things but most fears just keep us from moving forward. Today…. and well… every day… let go of those fears that hold you back!

Many Blessings,
ravensig

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Spiritual Guidance for Feb 1 – 7

Fabulous February has arrived!!  Spirit shows me playtime! Oh I am liking this already! Lots of laughter, love and playfulness. When was the last time you got to play?? How about last year? Did you play at all last year? It’s about letting go and shifting our focus to enjoying life! March will be a busy month so February is playful! Enjoy it while you can!

Many Blessings,
ravensig

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Moving Forward … Letting Go

The spirit has a way of healing that we will never understand. Life changes when we are ready for it to change. When we have let go of all those things that cause us pain. If your life isn’t moving forward… ask yourself.. what is it that you are still holing on to that you should let go.

Many Blessings,
ravensig

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A Peek at the Week Ahead!

A little teaser for the week ahead … a few more clues about how AMAZING this week looks. SUPER EXCITED!


Many Blessings,
ravensig

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No Worries

We have to be careful not to allow ourselves to live in the past as well as making sure that we don’t focus so much and so hard on the future that today slips by us without notice. Life is short enough and we have no idea when our time will be up.. so please don’t waste another moment by not being present.

Many Blessings,
ravensig

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Your Spiritual Forecast for November 30 – December 6

This week is all about letting go! We take a look at every aspect of our life and start asking important questions. Then comes the hard part of letting go what no longer serves our purpose. It may not be easy but it’s needed to move forward.

Many Blessings,
ravensig

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The First Step in Healing

Today, I share with you some healing energy and talk about letting go of all those things that no longer serve you and your highest good. I show you how to live in this breath and talk about all those things that cause blockages in our lives and keep us from healing.

Many Blessings,
ravensig

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The Energy of Love and Letting Go

There’s a new kind of energy in the air today! Today we are going to practice the art of letting shit go! Let it go! It’s not needed and it does nothing but hold us back. We are also going to practice the art of loving ourselves completely, unconditionally with all we have to love. We are worth it! It is  as it should be! Today we will be in the moment and enjoy each breath!

Many Blessings,
ravensig

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Cherishing Life 9-11

Today is 9-11, if nothing else it teaches us how precious life is and how quickly it can be taken from us. We have to be present in this moment and every moment that comes. Stop wasting your moments by living in the past and worrying about tomorrow.

Many Blessings,
ravensig

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The Phoenix – Becoming New Again

Spirit talks through us today about being the phoenix and burning away all that is not needed in our lives so that we can be reborn into a new life. Can you imagine for a moment that your world, your life and you are brand new. None of those things that troubled you before… exist! YOU are BRAND NEW! Your new life is on the way!  Are you ready?

Many Blessings,
ravensig

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Your Spiritual Forecast for Sept 7-13

Well, lets see what Spirit has in store for us this week. LOTS of CHANGE!! It’s time to clear the way for a whole new life. This week is about letting go of past pain, behaviors, thoughts, ideas, relationships, etc and making room in our lives for something more. The new that is coming is going to resonate with your soul. The things in your life up until now haven’t had that connection with you.. now it’s time to truly live in the moment and connect on levels unimagined.

Many Blessings,
ravensig

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Releasing the Chains that Are Holding You Back!

Today I talk about what holds us back, what has us chained down and releasing those things that bind us and keep us from moving forward on our path. I talk about this SHIFT that we are all experiencing and what to expect. What it’s all about and how to make it through.

Many Blessings,

ravensig

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Spending Time with the New Moon

Tomorrow is the New Moon and so today I talk more about going inside to do some work with our own Spirit. It’s time to release any old  thoughts, ideas, beliefs and behaviors that no longer serve us. We have to clean house and get rid of the old stuff to make room for the new. It’s a time to embrace a new way of being… but first we must let go of the past.

Many Blessings,
ravensig

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The Week Ahead for July 12 – 18

Right in the middle of our weeks is a New Moon! The days leading up to the New moon, we should all be taking inventory of our lives and of our spiritual selves and begin the process of letting go of those things that no longer serve our life purpose. After the New Moon it is a time to let go of that old way of being and embrace a new way of being for a better life, the life you want!

Many Blessings,
ravensig

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When You Are Ready!!

Today’s message talks about why we hold on to the people and things we hold on to and when we will be able to let go and move forward. Enjoy!

Many Blessings,
ravensig

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Spirit Message: Hang in There!

When you are feeling discouraged and maybe even feel like just giving up… Spirit urges me to remind you to hold on.. it’s not time to be giving up. It’s all about timing… being in the right place at the right time in front of the right person. You will get to where you are suppose to be.. just hang in there!

Many Blessings,
ravensig

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Will I Ever Be Happy?

The number one question I get all the time. Will I Ever Be Happy?

I give you the answer that spirit gives me. I have also struggled with this in my life but I have learned to listen and understand .. FINALLY!

I hope you enjoy my explanation of Finding Happiness Within and I hope more than anything that you too will also be able to find and experience it!

Many Blessings,
ravensig

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Let it Go… Truly Let it Go!

Whatever it is in life that has caused you pain… let it go. Right now, this minute release it. You no longer need to hold on to it. It’s in the past and you no longer live there. The years you have spent telling yourself you have let it go, let that go as well. The lies you’ve told yourself, saying that you are okay, yep, let those go too. The reasoning, the guilt, the pain, the torment, the memories, the denial, the feeling that you needed to pay for your mistakes, the story of it all… let it all go. Truly, once and for all… LET Whatever IT is… GO! Don’t, for one more minute let it hold you back from living, from loving, from believing, from wishing, from hoping, from doing, from becoming! Don’t allow it one more second to steal away your happiness, your peace and your life. Just LET IT GO!

If you must… stand outside in the rain and allow it to be washed away from your being and then stand in the sunlight and allow yourself to be consumed with the light of healing. It’s okay to be okay. It’s okay to let the pain go. There is no need to wear it like a badge. I doubt the lessons will ever be forgotten, but the pain is no longer needed… so let it go.

We tell ourselves so many lies and the biggest being that we are okay with how things are, how they have been and how they may continue to be. We find ourselves just getting by. We tell ourselves that we have let stuff go that we clearly have not. We tell ourselves and everyone else that we are okay, when deep inside we still feel that same ol’ pain.

The first step we must take now is by telling ourselves the truth.  The truth that part of our past still haunts us and that we have not actually let any of it go.

So here I am, taking the first step… I have spent my life holding on to a number of bad memories, a number of bad experiences and a number of bad choices. Afraid that I would repeat the past, I have held on to these things, not because I wanted to, but because I didn’t want them to come back around. Having them felt like a report card showing I passed that class, meaning I wouldn’t have to repeat it again. So, I held on without realizing I was holding on.

Today…. I begin the process of truly letting it all go. There is no actual class for life or for living. There is no report card at the end of it all that shows how well I did or didn’t do… there is only a life lived. How well that life is lived is up to me. It’s time to start truly living, it’s time to let go.

Many Blessings,
ravensig

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Viewer’s Choice

Tonight I let some of my viewers decide on the video topics. Here are the results in these 3 videos about Travel, Letting Go and Home. Enjoy!

How We Travel and Where We Wander

There’s No Place Like Home

Letting Go

Many Blessings,
ravensig

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We are NOT our Stories

Our experiences in life are our stories. They happened, they are real but now they are nothing more than thoughts. We hold dear the stories that enlighten us, that make us feel good, we remember the lessons learned from the teaching stories… but we let go of the story itself. We are not the story. We are the spirit that had the experience but we are not the story itself. Whatever it is you need to let go of… let it go… it is nothing more than a thought to you now…. it is not what is happening right here, right now… it’s in the past which makes it nothing more than a story… a thought.

Many Blessings,
Raventalker

What Belongs on Your Path and What Doesn’t!

Often, we allow the people and things to remain on our path that shouldn’t be for far too long. We have to be open and honest with ourselves and what fits us and what doesn’t. Allowing those things that don’t fit us to remain on our path does damage to everyone involved.. they cannot progress and neither can you. Without being harsh or cruel you can let go of those things and people that don’t truly belong with you. When you are able to do that…. everyone grows in the right direction.

Many Blessings,
Raventalker

Manifesting the Dream

Searching for a blog topic today… I looked back at things I have written in the past. I quickly realized.. I don’t live there anymore, why am I even looking there? So, I spoke about what is in my heart right now and what I plan to do about it. Enjoy!

Many Blessings,
Raventalker

Personal Breakthroughs

Those ah ha moments in our life where we see more clearly patterns in our past. Trace your own timeline back and look at all the things that went wrong, why and how they went wrong.. take a look at those events with a more clear vision and perspective. The patterns are there.. they may be hidden but when you can manage to “see” them differently… the patterns reveal themselves. When we have found that moment … that thing that was once hidden from us, that is when we are then allowed to heal and to grow and to move forward.

Many Blessings,
Raventalker

Unbinding Yourself from the Pain

Lately I have had big problems sleeping. My mind doesn’t stop going over and over what I’ve recently been through. I’m ready to let it go but mind seems to disagree when I try to go to sleep.

I keep trying meditation and focusing on others things but nope my brain says lets go back over here … I say noooooooooo I don’t want to go back over there … and my brain says like it or not here we go!

I want to be past it so bad and while I am awake I feel that I am okay for the most part, except for the occasional thought that usually comes unexpected and causes a brief meltdown. I go to bed NOT thinking about it and suddenly BAM! There it is like Groundhog Day, rerunning over and over through my mind. I try shifting my thoughts, I try focusing on other things, nothing seems to be helping right now.

cutthecordI decided I had to go a step further to rid myself of these haunting images and thoughts. I did a little unbinding ceremony. I took a piece of ribbon (in this case I used black, thought it was most fitting), I tied it on both ends. One end I imagined it being me and the other end my ex. I smudged the ribbon, I asked that we be untied in all ways for the better of everyone involved. I wanted to unbind myself from him so that I could let the haunting memories and destructive thoughts go. I severed the ribbon in half and burned each end before the knots so that we were fully separate. My heart and soul no longer tied to the hurt and pain.  I cried for a moment and let it all go.

Last night was the first night in months that I didn’t have any of those memories and thoughts running through my head all night long. The torment that is caused when you can’t get something like this out of your mind, can be so damaging. I was actually able to sleep and dream of other things. The relief that was given to me, priceless. Heavy sigh of relief. I had tried so many things and nothing helped. Sometimes we have to create a physical act for our minds to truly grasp the end and allow us to completely let go.

(Please always make sure that when doing these type of ceremonies that you do them with love in your heart and the best intentions for everyone involved.)

Many Blessings,
ravensig

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Where I am…

IMG_0254I have heard many quotes about the past…. from leaving it behind to not living there anymore to it defining who we are.

My message today is: It’s not about my past, it’s about where I am right now. 

Does my past define me? NO, but it has played a part in how I have shaped myself.

Do we carry the past around with us? Yes, of course we do, the past is filled with lessons that we went through for a reason. If we left them on the side of the road and forgot them, we would just repeat them over and over again. So, our past does follow us in that way. We just need to not allow the past to interfere with our progress forward.

The past is for me to remember and keep those lessons learned, not for you to worry about.

The past does not define me, I define me. I choose the steps I take each and every day. The past taught me lessons that I shall not forget that help me make better choices in my walk.

Many Blessings,
Raventalker

Stripping it all away!

This is a vision I had a couple of years ago and thought now to be a good time to re-share with you my experience…

The Milk Ceremony ~ 

I was laid out in circle completely naked as the clan mothers cleansed me with milk. They carefully poured milk all over my body taking care not to miss any part of me. Once this was done pieces of leather were laid over my more private areas and a medicine man then came into the circle. He carried with him a large shell of smoke to once again cleanse and bless me and the area before he began his medicine.

What happened next was something I would have never imagined.  It was as if I had many layers of myself on me…. Like layers of clothing it was as if I had layers of flesh that had built up over the years. The medicine man stood at my feet and with gestures he pulled off each layer one by one. With each layer he pulled off and threw behind him, I became brighter and more clean looking.  It was just like when one lightens their teeth and with each application they become a tad bit whiter. Behind him as he threw off each layer, there were helpers that would quickly pour special water mixed with milk and herbs onto the ground where his gestures seemed to have thrown the layers. Also there was a bundle of herbs smoking just on the far side of the area that yet another helper would continuously fan so that the smoke filled the entire area behind the medicine man.

These layers of me were… well….. they were ideas, behaviors, thoughts, actions and habits that I had formed over years of living. Things that had attached to me through all my daysin this life. I was being stripped away of everything. Stripped down to the bone but the medicine man went far beyond flesh and bone …  he went all the way down to the core of me.

feather It took quite a long while to strip away all my layers .. seems as though I must have collected quite a lot in this  life thus far.  When he was finally done stripping away my layers, I saw something amazing and unexpected. I was made up entirely of light. Laying there still, glowing oh so brightly.. and to my amazement I could see certain parts of me a bit brighter than the rest. We read about and are taught that our bodies have these Chakra points… the points in your body that hold the most energy…. Seeing myself in this way….. confirmed that to be true.

It was as if I had the whole of the universe inside me… made up of every constellation imaginable. Some say were are born of the stars .. after seeing this I would certainly believe that to be a truth. Once I was stripped down to this level the medicine man and his helpers along with the clan mothers, sat down and formed a circle around me…. They sat there for a very long time chanting in a meditative prayer. They did this until the sun came back up.

I was then shaded by some structure that they built and left there in a meditative state until the sun had gone back down. As I began to grow back a new layer of flesh and bone… I was given a token or gift from each person in the circle… they placed these gifts inside me. It will be up to me to find these gifts and use them when the time is right. The medicine man’s gift was a large crystal.. it was squared in shape .. not pointed and not entirely clear.. it was a milky color and a bit off white.

This ceremony leaves me in quite a state of reflection. I can certainly see the point of it and feel quite blessed to have been part of such a sacred and healing act. In fact beyond the words describing the ceremony I feel quite speechless.. not knowing exactly what to say… yeah I bet you never imagines that either!! hahahaha.

On that note I will leave you with this one last thought… maybe we should all take a bit of time to look at ourselves and the many layers we have collected over our lifetimes… and do ourselves  the favor of shedding those layers that bring us negativity, pain or those thoughts and behaviors that simply hold us back in life.

Many Blessings,
ravensig

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Holding on to Pain and Anger

IMG_8505 Someone suggested yesterday that I speak a little about holding on to anger, so  here I am talking about holding on to pain and anger. I’m adding in pain, but this  should include any type of negative emotion, behavior or thought.

Holding on to these things do us no good at all. They stew inside us and destroy  our chances of peace and happiness. Negativity robs us of so many things and can  hold us back from progressing forward.

So, you are holding on to anger from something that has happened to you, or you  are holding on to pain from a past event or you have developed some sort of  negative behavior, stemming from something that happened…. in the PAST.  PAST being the keyword here. You cannot go back and change what has  happened, you can’t rewind and replay and expect a different result. Why hold on to these thoughts or feelings? What good are they doing? Is the other party learning any lessons, are they suffering from what you continue to hold on to? NOPE! They are most likely oblivious to your  own internal pain and self punishment while you suffer daily.

So why hold on?

It’s in the past… it happened. EVERYONE has had bad things happen to us… EVERYONE. You are not alone. LET IT GO! It does not serve you at all to continue holding on to the negativity. It hurts you and you alone… why allow a negative experience from the past to continue interrupting your present and infect your future?

LET IT GO… It will be the best gift you ever give yourself… that release will be your new found freedom. 

Many Blessings,
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Forgiving…

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I just read a great quote: Before going to bed, forgive everyone and sleep with a clean heart.

This is something I’m sure we all need to practice. I cannot even begin to count the hours of lost sleep because I was holding onto something negative.

Ok let’s do a practice run now:
I forgive your stupidity and your blindness
I forgive what you don’t understand and your ignorance
I forgive you for what you don’t even realize that you’ve done to my soul
I forgive you for not seeing the best in me
I forgive you for not understanding
I forgive you

I forgive myself for hurting and for keeping it locked inside
I forgive myself for allowing the pain to drain me
I forgive myself for not being able to let it go
I forgive myself

Many Blessings,
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Dandelion Dreams

dandelionDandelion wishes and sunset dreams
Morning dew sparkling on the grass as the early light beams

A soft hush fills the air
As a breeze runs it’s fingers through my hair

The Meadowlark awakens a song within
Oh sweet melody… where have you been?

The times are changing at last
Join me as I say goodbye to the past

A great teacher it has been
I let go with a happy heart and cheerful grin

What has been done is done
No need to regret the web that has been spun

We start today with an outlook that’s brand new
Learning to love the ever growing spirit that lives inside you.

Dandelion wishes and sunset dreams
Loving life and all that it means!

Dandelion wishes and sunset dreams!

Many Blessings,
Raventalker

Some info about the Dandelion: 
(from about.com)
Dandelion is an herb that is beneficial from root to blossom. It is one of the most versatile and important herbs to learn about.

Dandelion is a multi-purpose herb. All parts of it are useful. From early spring, when the new leaves are steamed and eaten as a potherb, through the summer, the leaves and blossoms are harvested. In the fall, the roots are pulled after a frost. Even the white, milky sap is used as an effective wart remover. Dandelion is a diuretic that also contains potassium. It has been used as a liver tonic. Regular harvesting will keep the dandelion from going to seed and sowing itself. This will keep the spread of cultivated dandelions out of your lawn. No matter what use you want dandelion for, this easy growing plant is going to be a wonderful addition to your herbal garden.