It’s the Final week of Fabulous February !! Shocking Revelations is the focus for the final week. Many things will be discovered and uncovered. It will cover everything… things about yourself, others, events, situations, etc. A domino effect of revelations… one after another. Now, please don’t panic .. these are good things.. needed insight to help you move forward. All very positive!
Many Blessings,
Follow the Raven:
Today, Spirit speaks about growth and understanding. An understanding about everything. You look at life and the world with new eyes and a new sense of being. You hear the truth … finally.
Many Blessings,
Follow the Raven:
Spirit guides me this morning to talk about something we have all been guilty of doing to some extent and at some point in our lives.
This would be “making up situations in our own heads”. Tell me you haven’t done this… hahahahaha we all have in some way .. some more drastic and elaborate than others. We convince ourselves of things going on in our lives that are not really happening. We make people and situations into something they are not.
Sometimes we can turn people and situations into things we wish they were and sometimes we go the whole dooms days route and convince ourselves of the worst. We do this instead of allowing things to be just what they are.
People:
A friend doesn’t “appear” to be as upset as you are about something going on in your lives… so you tell yourself they just don’t care. Maybe they don’t show their emotions in the same way. You have no idea what really may be going on internally with your friend … so be careful not to compare their reaction with yours.
In a relationship – one might show their affections outwardly and emotionally while the other may show theirs in some other way. It does not mean the other does not care about you. You have your way and they have theirs.
In our minds we have convinced ourselves that our friend or partner must not care … when this may or may not even be the truth.
Situations:
The waters of life get rough and we seem to be having a hard time and not so much luck. Some then cook up these scenarios in their heads that the whole world is suddenly against them. Someone must be wishing them bad luck or someone is working against them.. or .. or.. or.. it’s all dooms day, drama and misery. So we have hit a rough patch .. your attitude and the way you handle yourself during this time is part of what determines how long this rough patch lasts. Sometimes we put ourselves through far more misery than is needed.
We don’t always make up dooms day situations .. we also make up “better than real life” situations. I have seen so many people over the years do this. Most often done with relationships or well.. hopeful relationships. If you haven’t done this yourself, I am betting that you know someone who has! They find themselves in a new relationship with someone that is not so truthful and honest or maybe just not a good match for the other person..
Here are some of things you may recognize:
They change who they are to be compatible with the other person.. not really being who they are.. this never lasts long term.
The other person in the relationship has shown some unsteadiness. It’s obvious to everyone… even you… you excuse it away… something else happens that’s not so great.. again you excuse it away… not wanting to accept the truth. Wanting this person to be the one … you make excuse after excuse until sooner or later you both run out of excuses!
How much pain and hardship would we have saved everyone if at first we just allowed things to be as they were and accepted that fact?
So there you .. a bit of food for thought for today.
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
Spirit gives me but a single statement today: Believe in Your own Truth.
So I sit here and I ponder this statement for a moment ..
The world is vast with many different beliefs stretching from shore to shore… None superior to another. (Tho many will love to disagree)
It’s not a matter of who is right and who is wrong .. it’s a personal matter of what the truth is to you.
What feels right to you?
What resonates inside you … ringing out the tones of truth to your soul?
Whatever that is .. THAT is the truth. The truth for you and you alone.
THAT is your path .. stay true to it and it will stay true to you.
Many Blessings for a beautiful day,
Raventalker
Some food for thought this evening…..
Each year we learn new lessons and each year we tell ourselves that next time we will do it differently .. whatever “it” is.
At the end of each year we say .. the coming year will be a different year .. that we will make much needed changes and life will change for us.
Well…. ?
Have you made the changes you said you would make?
I’m trying … taking one step at a time and one day at a time to keep my own word. It’s not an easy road … but a road I need to take. Some days it’s harder than others. I just want you all to know .. you are not alone out there. We all have changes that need to be made in one way or another. Some easy .. some not so easy and some hard as hell!! If you need help, reach out to friends and family… talk over your options, your difficulties… they may be able to help you get through.
How about you?
Are you staying true to your own word? Are you making the changes you need to make?
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
Don’t allow outside forces to destroy who YOU are or allow them to take the light from inside you ..
Be who you are without fear ..
We are happiest when we don’t have to hide or mask the true us .. when we are allowed the freedom to be exactly who we are without criticism and without fear of other looking at us with the tilted head and disapproving look on their faces..
I have learned that those type of people exist no matter where you are or where you go or who you chose to be…. There is always someone out there that won’t agree with everything you do.. or everything you are about..
Be yourself and don’t worry about what if someone doesn’t like this or that .. what if I look foolish .. what if I fail.. what if it doesn’t work exactly as planned .. what if.. what if… what if ….
I know from experience those what ifs are the true killer.. everyday you don’t do something that you truly wish to do .. those what ifs eat away at you .. and your mind takes you on a nasty journey of self doubt
Now please .. do use common sense when living your life and making choices.. don’t do those things that you know may hurt someone else in some way .. or that may hurt yourself..
Just follow your heart and be true to who you are inside
Follow your truest dreams and don’t worry about what if
You never know .. some of those dreams may just come true
as my favorite quote says:
Only the ones who believe,
Ever see what they dream
Ever dream what comes true….
Many Blessings,
Raventalker
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