This has always been a personal struggle of mine. I always worry about hurting someone’s feelings, so I end up being overly nice and accommodating to those that just want nothing more than to use and or abuse. This year I have finally figured out that it’s ok to say no to these types of people. It’s not me being purposely hurtful to them by denying them what they want.. it’s me standing up for myself and saying no to their behaviors. It’s me saying that it’s not okay for you to do things that hurt me. It’s very empowering to take back that part of your life and let go of that kind of fear.
Do you believe in miracles?
How about fairies?
Do you believe in the Boogie Man?
How about past lives?
Do you believe in Spirit?
How about wishes?
Do you believe in angels?
How about love?
Do you believe in ghosts?
How about karma?
You see it really doesn’t matter which if any of the above that you believe in …. I’ve left out the most important of all…. the one thing that makes all the difference.
Do you believe in yourself?
When did doubt come in to play? Who told you that you weren’t worth believing in? Why is it so hard to believe in yourself?
Whatever the answers to the above questions… forget them all. These answers are useless, because YOU ARE WORTHY! You are worth believing in. YOU CAN DO IT! Whatever “it” is… if you truly believe in yourself and what your goal is .. it can be accomplished. It will take work and lots and lots of effort. It will take some “not giving up”, and it will take believing!
On the road to making your dreams come true… there will be times when one might stumble or fall… the key is getting back up and getting yourself back on track and moving forward. Believe in yourself and believe in your goals. YOU ARE WORTH IT!
We all know this and we understand what it means… but do you truly see?
We must do far more than understand the meaning .. we must live our lives with that same understanding.
Imagine if you will your life as a hamster wheel … you are on that wheel sometimes walking at a comfortable pace… sometimes running like hell… sometimes we even stop for a bit of a rest but when we get going again we are still traveling on that same wheel (our life).
So it should be easy to see that what ever you leave on that wheel will come back around to you at some point.
The question of the day is: What have you left on your wheel of life?