Day: August 27, 2012

All it Takes is Effort

A kind word, a smile, loving gesture or a little consideration can go a very long way. Please remember that… in all that you do. For any kind of relationship this is extremely important. Whether it’s be a friendship, family or a romantic  partner/spouse… you need to make sure that you have put forth some effort. Little actions, speak volumes and whether you think it is important or not .. it is!

Most relationships have one person that tends to be the giver and the other the receiver… if you are the receiver in the relationship it is ever so important that you not forget the giver and that although the giver may not “seem” like they NEED anything done for them, given to them, etc…  they in fact DO NEED some effort from you. They need to also feel loved, admired, needed, wanted, appreciated or just cared for in general. As the receiver you will never know the true efforts of the giver each day. You will never fully understand how much thought and preparation goes into everything that the giver says and does for you. Effort in return is all that’s needed. That’s all …. just some type of effort to let them know you care.

People come into our lives and we like to keep them there for whatever reasons…. we WANT them in our lives versus NEEDING them in our lives. Life may not be the same without them .. but it will go on. We will adapt and life will change but it always goes on. If you want to be in someone’s life make sure that you are also wanted because needs change.

Many Blessings,
Raventalker

Daily Insight: Powers of the Moon

Today I pull the Moon card from the Vision Quest Deck and how fitting is it that at the end of this week we have a Blue Moon!! Yep, that’s right a Blue Moon! No, the moon won’t really be blue, as in the color blue… a Blue Moon is when we have 2 full moons in 1 month.. the Blue Moon is the second full moon of that month. They don’t happen very often, so that’s why the phrase “once in a blue moon”.

Understanding the moon cycles and the effects they have on us can help in many ways. Paying attention to when the moon is full or new is a start. You will notice how people change during these times. It’s not just the full moon that effects us… all phases of the moon have different effects on every person. When you keep track of the phases and watch the people around you.. you will begin to see how indeed the phases do take their toll.

Understanding how the phases effect you are even better. If you tend to become more emotional during a specific phase, you can then alter your thoughts and emotions a little bit better knowing that part of what you are feeling has more to do with the moon phase than anything else going on at that moment. Same goes if you tend to get happier, angrier, quieter or whatever the mood. Knowing why can help you far more than one might think. It allows you to step away from your emotions and see more clearly what’s really going and why you feel the way you feel so intensely.

As the moon cycles around the Earth and moves closer an further away, we know that the ocean is effected and the ocean is what?? WATER! What are we made up of??? Approximately 60% of water and our brain consists of 70% water.. and we wonder how on Earth the moon effects us so drastically… LOL

There is magic to be found in all things… the Moon, just another giant sphere of Magic!

Take the time to understand it, get to know it and then go with the flow of it!

Many Blessings,
Raventalker