Tonight I speak a little or maybe a lot about those of us who feel, act, love, think and do on a very deep level. We are often left feeling quite alone in this world. We wonder why those around us are so different and empty while we are left feeling everything on such a level that it creates this sense of loneliness. We are souls in search of a connection that seems so very hard to find in today’s world. We are souls that don’t want to settle for something less than. Not having that connection we long for feels so very painful…. but reality is that you are not alone.. there are many of us here, we are just scattered about the Earth.
This has always been a personal struggle of mine. I always worry about hurting someone’s feelings, so I end up being overly nice and accommodating to those that just want nothing more than to use and or abuse. This year I have finally figured out that it’s ok to say no to these types of people. It’s not me being purposely hurtful to them by denying them what they want.. it’s me standing up for myself and saying no to their behaviors. It’s me saying that it’s not okay for you to do things that hurt me. It’s very empowering to take back that part of your life and let go of that kind of fear.