What happened between then and now that took me from the old version of myself to this person I am today? I use to be a people pleaser that put up with way too much toxic and negative energy from everyone around me.

When negativity or toxic energy shows up at my door now, I show it right back out that door. It took years of trying to help everyone else, trying to heal everyone else, trying to make everyone else happy, to realize that isn’t what I needed to do. I stopped worrying so much about everyone else and started focusing on me. I needed to “fix” me, heal me. Once I shifted that focus from them to me, EVERYTHING CHANGED!

It doesn’t matter how good you are to others, it doesn’t matter how much you do for others… people change when they want to change. It has nothing at all to do with you. If you are one of those people like I use to be, make that shift to yourself and see what happens. It’s amazing … one might even say MAGICAL!